Maybe you use your vibrator regularly and consider yourself a pro. Or maybe you've never used one and want to learn exactly how to make the most of it. Either way, you definitely can never stop learning when it comes to getting the most from your vibrator. Continue reading to learn all about vibrators and exactly how to best use them.
What is a vibrator?
A vibrator is a sex toy that vibrates, pulsates or throbs to stimulate the clitoris or vagina (or both). Vibrators come in a variety of shapes, models and colors. They are usually used by women who have difficulty reaching orgasm through vaginal sexual intercourse. Vibrators can be used by a partner or by oneself for masturbation.
How do you use a vibrator?
You might think a vibrator is self-explanatory, but that just means you probably haven't been using it the best way you can. Here are a few steps to take to ensure your vibrator gives you the very best outcome every time you use it.
- Set it up. Some vibrators need to be charged before they can be used. If your vibrator takes batteries, stock it with the right type. Next, explore all of your vibrator's buttons, speeds, switches and settings to figure out which ones you want to try first. Then, be sure to wash it thoroughly (unless it's not waterproof). Give it a good once over. If you see anything that looks off, take care of it before you use your vibrator. But if you don't see any red flags, it's time to get started playing with your new sex toy!
- Try it on your own. Even if you want to use your vibrator with a partner, it's a good idea to try it on your own first to get a feel for it. When you're totally alone, try a few different speeds and settings on yourself. If you can't be completely alone (if you have roommates or thin walls, for example), turn on some music to help conceal the sound of your vibrator. Then, explore every inch of your clitoris with the vibrator to find exactly what makes you scream with pleasure. And, although most vibrators are used for clitoral stimulation, some women like to use them for vaginal penetration too. If you want to try that, you should be safe by putting a condom over the vibrator and using water-based lubricant.
- Try it with a partner. Once you've discovered the speeds and settings that work best for you, it's time to break out your vibrator with your partner. Simply tell your partner what you like and let them go to town on you!
Ready to try a vibrator?
If you really want to amp up your sex life, a vibrator is a great idea. It's ideal for use by yourself and with a partner, and it makes you achieve an incredible orgasm. What's not to love?