No longer the realm of gay men, the prostate is the key to a world of pleasure for the sexually adventurous male. We'll walk you through the milking process and offer a few tips to ensure it goes well.
1. Prepare
Because the prostate is most easily accessed through the anus, most people prefer to prepare. If you're regular, a bowel movement helps. Using wet wipes or a douche is one option. You can also shower to make sure your back end is squeaky clean.
Don't forget about mental stimulation. Porn or erotica can prepare your body and mind for prostate milking.
2. Assume the Position
Find a position where you can easily and comfortably access your prostate for at least a few minutes. Some common positions include:
- Doggy style
- On your back with legs pulled up to your chest
- Squatting
- On your side
3. Find Your Prostate
First, apply a bit of lube to a finger, then insert it into your booty. Search for a bump around the size of a walnut that makes you feel like you have to pee when you press it. If the sensation is uncomfortable, you can try again after urinating to ensure your bladder is empty.
4. Use Pleasurable Motions
The standard recommendation for prostate play is a "come hither" motion, which allows stimulation without breaking contact. It's not your only option, however. You can experiment with stroking, tapping, and pressing to see what feels good.
If you want to feel more, try adding a finger--or even two!
5. Use a Tool
Once you've located your prostate and find that it feels good to milk it, you might want a way to do so more efficiently. A P-spot massager is also a good tool if you can't quite reach or stimulate your prostate enough with your fingers.
Plus, you can experience new sensations when you try vibrating, rotating, or thrusting toys. A standard butt plug like those included in booty kits can be enjoyable, too, especially if it has a curve.
You might notice that prostate toys often have a particular appearance. This includes an arm you insert into your ass, one that stimulates your prostate from the outside, and another that serves as a handle. When it comes to milking, a rocking back-and-forth motion is what you want.
Don't forget that many G-spot toys can double as anal toys. As long as they've got a flared base to prevent them from getting lost, feel free to give them a whirl. They can also be used for strap-on sex also known as pegging. A toy that can reach the prostate makes it feel good for him!