One of the most common problems couples have is that their sex life goes stale over time. This usually happens about two years into the relationship. The excitement begins to fade, and the couple grows apart if both partners' needs aren't met. There are ways to keep the sexual spark alive, however. You can try these techniques if you're a happy and compatible couple otherwise:
Use Self-Help Materials
Your sex life may seem boring right now because you haven't been willing to try new things. You can change that by picking up some self-help books. These books might give you a few tips for trying new sex positions. There may be more sex positions than you ever knew existed. The resources may also offer some insight into how other couples survived as long as they did. The cool part about using self-help texts is that you can do it discreetly. No one else has to know you're researching sex-based topics.
Try Role Play
You and your partner could add some flavor to your sex lives by engaging in roleplaying as well. Roleplay doesn't have any rules other than pretending to be other people. Many men enjoy role playing because it makes them feel like they're having sex with another woman. Men appreciate variety. They're also visual creatures, which means they'll want to see something different from time to time. You can give that to your man by agreeing to explore roleplaying. Your "game" could be a traditional "nurse and patient" roleplay, or it could be more creative and involve a fantasy that one of you has had for many years.
Consider Using Sex Toys
Sex toys can ignite both of your fires if you use them the right way. A world of adult toys is out there, and they can help you and your partner reach new peaks in your sexual performance. The type of sex toys you use depends on what each of you desires. For example, you can use dildos, rabbits, and other masturbators during foreplay. You could also use bondage accessories if you want to engage in a little BDSM. Certain sex toys can prolong your orgasm or your partner's orgasm so that you experience the pleasure longer as well. Another type of sex toy can enhance your oral sex activity. You and your partner can research these items and reach a neutral agreement about how you want to use them. It could be an exhilarating experience for both of you.
Put the Spark Back in Your Sex Life Now
Now you know a few things you can try if you want to re-light your sex life fire. Try them, and you could be a happy couple for many years.